Can You Divorce your head from your heart?

The gut wrenching fear of knowing or not knowing, the anger and rage of betrayal, the devastation caused. The inability to ever trust a significant other again.
But there’s another side that is not often looked at, and may be unpopular. The truth is, if your cheater didn’t care about you at all, they wouldn’t try to hide an affair. The fact that they go to extreme lengths to keep you from discovering it shows how much they DO care about losing you! I know, it’s an unpopular viewpoint because of the “ownership” we tend to assign ourselves over our significant other, it’s inherent in relationships and in society’s rules.
But if you really could think clearly about what’s going on, you could be very surprised. They usually love you and don’t want to lose you. They usually have some sort of issue with themselves, where they just need more; more love, more romance, more fun; and hope to get it out of their system and get back to their old lives, without you being the wiser.
Sometimes, a relationship is at the breaking point, or so cold or lonely that an affair is the only thing that allows a partner to continue to stay in it. Acting somewhat like the third leg of a stool, propping up a diseased marriage or long term relationship, an affair can be what saves this type of situation. In many cases, this is actually proof of a deep commitment and loyalty to the primary relationship. Rather than leave the spouse, who would be devastated, they get warmth, romance, sex or even just friendship from one another.
The threat comes into play when the warmth and romance become so addicting that the cheater decides they have to leave, almost as a matter of life and death to them; they literally feel they will die if they don’t leave. And in some ways, it’s true. A part of your joyful, innocent and childlike self can die away if it goes too long without the love and nurturing it needs.
The time to fix all this is way before the attraction to another starts. Talking, sharing life’s moments, mutuality and hope, create a strong bond of intimacy and an excitement to move together into the future. This also helps ward off threats from others.
Just remember, all is not lost because someone cheats; if you can use your head instead of your heart, keep your cool and get to the bottom of what ailed the relationship, you can turn it around and come out stronger than you were before. If you can look at the problems and put ownership and pride aside for just a while, if you truly love your cheater, then a new and different, honest relationship is possible, and cheating won’t need to be a part of it.

Psychic Home Improvement:

Do Some Astral Spring Cleaning

Feng Shui is a form of curing what ails the household, room by room—chakra colors are the dominating colors for each part of the body that bring the energy to the surface and give empowerment. When you combine the two forms, movement (wind and water) with the colors of the spiritual centers of the body you can heal the house, comfort the spirit, body and mind.

Let’s start at the top and work our way down.

Crown (Top of Head): Purple, a color that is wonderful for pillows. To rest your head on either in the bedroom or the couch.

Third Eye (Center of Forehead): Indigo. This color is good for your meditation room or, if you don’t have a meditation room, the sacred space where you relax.

Throat: Blue. Eating off of a blue plate would enhance the taste and vision of the food. And here we have the “blue plate special”—the kitchen is a good place for blue and if you have a music room, it would work wonders in there as well.

Heart (Center of Chest): Green. This is a healing color, the color of life—plants. Having some green in the bathroom makes every morning a good morning. Rugs, shower curtain, a hanging plant that likes moisture all fit into the green energy.

Solar Plexus (Above Navel, Below Chest): Yellow. Breathe in, breathe out. See the sun in the morning. Great color for the kitchen walls. Also, a pale yellow will help you to sleep and can be added in accents throughout the bedroom.

Sacral (Between Navel and Genitals): Orange. Sheets for the bed. Peach color would work too. A guest room with touches of orange would bring the warmth of home to an overnight guest.

Root (Base of the Spine): Red. Chairs, making the back comfortable. A red leather couch, a big red chair in any room of the house. In the bathroom a red wood toilet seat would be lovely.

Black, white and shades of grey can be brought in with metal, like silver, lighting, floors and walls. Basic white is a good foundation, frames of black give a polished look—also, gold energy brings a richness and vibrant vibration to any room. Mirrors are of a silver nature and create a sense of depth and roominess to a small room. Mirrors are also a way to attract money into the house. If the bathroom faces the front door of your home make sure the bathroom door is always closed so that money does not go out the front door needlessly. Hanging a picture above the toilets keeps the ch’i from being flushed away as well. In this day and age of uncluttered clean space, it’s helpful to use Feng Shui for success in all areas of your life.

You Can Read a Dog’s Paw!

By Krishna Bill

Palm-Reading Isn’t Just for People

Ever tried to read a dog’s paw? Turns out it’s not only possible, there’s also a precise method to doing it, and anybody can if they follow the right steps! Check out how to do it below.
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1. Choose a paw, traditionally a female dog’s left paw and a male’s right paw are read. Some schools teach that the dog’s dominant side will be a better way to get an accurate reading.
2. Get your dog to relax and see if your dog will roll over on her back for the reading. By rolling over it is easier to read your dog’s paw. You can also have your dog sit and hold up her paw to read it.
3. Identify the four major pads on your dog’s paw. You’ll find five pads, a large pad surrounded by four smaller ones. For paw reading we focus on the four smaller ones. On a human hand the four main lines are the heart line, the head line, the fate line and the life line. On your dog the four major pads are the behavior pad, the life pad, the play pad and the health pad.
4. Holding your dog’s pad up, the one all the way to the left is the behavior pad, followed by the life, play and health pads. To interpret the behavior pad you need to look closely at the shape of the pad. A rounded, smooth pad indicates that training will come easy. A rough, long pad indicates that the dog is spirited and has an independent streak.
5. When you evaluate the life pad it will indicate your dog’s life and general well-being. A pad that is multicolored indicates a long healthy life; smooth, long pads indicate vitality; almond-shaped indicates plenty of energy.
6. The play pad will indicate your dog’s desire to play and interact with other dogs and people. A rough, apple-shaped pad indicates very playful and friendly. A small, smooth pad indicates playful behavior, but tires easily.
7. You can evaluate your dog’s health pad by looking closely at the color and shape of the pad. A pad that is long and smooth indicates vitality. A pear-shaped, rough pad indicates strength and enthusiasm.
8. Your dog’s paw will change as life goes on. Check it every once in a while to keep tabs on your dog’s health, life, playfulness and behavior.

Below are a few symptoms that I take into consideration when evaluating a caller who thinks they may have been crossed, or stepped into some good ole’ Southern foot track magick. You may want to take a moment and see if you are experiencing any of these conditions, and if you require a further and more individualized evaluation from a professional to determine if a curse is present, where it originated, and how to remove it.
• Dreams can serve as an advanced warning system and are excellent for forewarning you of the misfortunes of a curse. If you’re experiencing frequent nightmares and insomnia, your guides may be trying to tell you something. Pay attention and document your dreams to see if there is a reoccurring warning. Your dreams may reveal to you what your awake mind may have a hard time accepting.
• Hearing voices that are in your mind that are threatening, argumentative, or more commonly the voices that create confusion that you can’t seem to get rid of.
• Physical pains and manifestations are rare, but they are possible. When a specific person’s name is mentioned, if you feel a sharp pain, or stabbing sensation, or instant nausea onset, you may have been “cursed” by that individual. This is your body’s method of communicating to you its dismay or warning about that particular person.
• Losing frequent objects of importance when you are normally an organized person.
• Unusual manifestations in the form of frequent accidents or dilemmas. For example, if someone was sabotaging you at work, you may experience several hindrances affecting your physical presence at the office, including getting into a fender-bender on the way to work, tripping into a gutter and soiling your clothes before an important meeting, or spilling coffee down your pant leg. Sure, any one of these examples may be a fluke accident, but when it becomes obvious to you that it’s happing very frequently, there may be a justified concern.
• Sudden severe onset of an illness with no other explainable cause, or a mild illness that persists for weeks without a diagnosis.
• Experiencing a feeling of pressure or heaviness on your chest, especially when you are in a resting position, lying down on your back.
• A reoccurring feeling that you’re being watched that is not pleasant. This feeling is often heightened when you are in fact alone, or when it is later in the evening.
• A slow and steady drain of your energy is the most common and frequent ailment I see when a person is under any form of psychic attack. This form of curse may not be life threatening but the subtle effects over time can seriously impair a person’s lifestyle and performance. The simple lack of motivation to go into work, or loss of interest in a lover may be the result of underlying black magick someone has done around you.
As you seek answers to your situation, most importantly, do not feel ashamed or embarrassed. You are not alone in having these concerns. I have discovered that it is often the callers that are more spiritually connected, that demonstrate some level of psychic awareness that are sensitive enough to even notice a “curse” and therefore are more likely to be the ones calling with the desire to clear their energy field.
If you want to know for certain if someone or something is psychically attacking you, but you do not have a clear answer, I always encourage active participation and suggest that you attempt self-diagnosis through a means of divination, such as card reading or the use of a pendulum if you are skilled in this area. If you still seek a “second opinion” and want the help of a professional, there are many reputable psychics at California Psychics that specialize in this area.
Most importantly, know that YOU have the power to remain free from harm, and unaffected from the “curse” or “hex” of another individual. A curse is only as powerful as you allow it to be

Begin Your Astral Journey Tonight... 

We all know the possibilities that daydreaming can offer. We are all looking for that perfect escape from the dull routines in our lives, or when we finally have a quiet moment to ourselves. It's the perfect distraction that we create for ourselves when none other is available. It seems like such a simple pleasure to let our minds drift, but we also know how powerful it can be to escape into our inner world, leaving reality a million miles away. Suddenly, you are li ving the life that you have always wanted, a life that was not even possible in the real world that you have left behind. You can achieve anything that you imagine: that perfect home, a loving family and circle of friends, financial success, freedom to travel and pursue personal interests and hobbies. 

Perhaps you are even more creative, and have not limited your daydreams to goals achievable in the real world: maybe your inner world allows you to reconnect with loved ones that have passed on. Maybe you can revisit moments in your past and relive them, and make different choices so that you can move on with your life without regrets. Maybe you've created a side of you that is invincible, and you are no longer held back by your fears: you are no longer scared to fly, scared of dying, scared of losing someone close to you or scared of being alone. You may have allowed your mind to dream the impossible: travelling through time, through space, or be able to instantly appear (or disappear) in any situation. That calming, vague feeling that washes ov er you when you are daydreaming may seem like you are just letting your mind wander. However, whether you realize it or not, you are starting to place yourself in a state of hypnosis, and what you are doing is allowing your mind to astral project throughout your imagination. 

Astral projection is the process of allowing your spirit and imagination to leave your body, thereby being able to achieve what you can only dream of. The part of ourselves that experiences
astral projection exists in the fourth dimension, so we are no longer bound by the same conditions that prevent us from living without borders in reality. 

"Getting Things Changed"

Chris Cade's Personal Transformational Ecourse (Part 2 of 7)...

As I mentioned in yesterday's email – people will often cut short positive actions – like meditation or learning an instrument -- because they just don't "feel in the flow" that day. They further argue that setting boundaries by committing to a set amount of practice or study time each day is "unnatural."

Boy isn't our Inner Critic cunning... It picked a term like "unnatural" to stop us from committing to consistent actions that would make us happier, healthier and wealthier.

After all, being all-natural, green and organic is the way to go.

But if someone has smoked a pack of cigarettes every day for the last thirty years – I can guarantee you they are going to find that it feels very "unnatural" to stop smoking.

But smoking certainly isn't natural. We didn't come out of the womb smoking cigarettes. Sure, in Indonesia you can see videos of kids smoking as early as two-years old. One toddler on the island of Sumatra --  who has become world famous – "goes crazy, slamming his head on the floor and even gets sick if he doesn't have his two packs a day."

You only have to look at the somewhat "freaky" video of this overweight toddler smoking 40 cigarettes a day to realize that it may be "uncomfortable" for him to quit – but it's certainly not natural for him to continue.
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Likewise, whenever we set new boundaries on our life (either to avoid a bad habit or create a good one) it may be uncomfortable at first. But if it is going to make our life better then it's certainly not unnatural.

You know what's really unnatural? Not being able to stick to something if you know it's going to improve your life. That's unnatural!

And it's certainly not "living in the flow." It's living in fear of taking action.

Not taking action may be "comfortable." Especially if that's what someone has been doing all their life. But it sure isn't natural.

We humans give way too much importance to emotional likes and dislikes. "I love this. I hate this." We'd be far happier if we focused on what we WANT instead of what we "like."

Destress with Load Stones

By Erica Burke

Get Centered Again Using Gemstones

In our busy lives, we can start to think it’s normal to feel continually stressed. But much documentation indicates that stress can lead to serious physical and mental illness, so it’s of utmost importance to learn to manage our stress levels for a higher quality of life. Using lodestones is a simple method to reduce stress.
Lodestones are a naturally magnetized type of gemstone (also known as magnetite, or volcanic rocks). Handling lodestones makes you relax into their grounding, supportive energy as stress melts away. Many people use two lodestones at once—when you roll or swish the stones together you can benefit from the gentle magnetic energy as they are drawn toward each other. The practice of swiveling them together makes them kinesthetically appealing too.
Like any other gemstone or crystal, it’s best to ensure they are cleansed of old energy before each use. You can cleanse stones by connecting with a higher power and setting the intention that the method you use (wafting incense over the stone, chanting, etc.) will clear away old energy.
Try any of the below tips to release stress and start fresh!
Lodestone Tips to Heal Stress
1. Simply swivel a set in your hand at work, during a stressful phone call, before an exam, or during any other situation when you feel stress and pressure closing in.
2. Try holding one lodestone in each hand. People who are familiar with Reiki or pranic energy can feel lodestones activate healing energy in their hands. (It’s OK if you have difficulty sensing the energy in your hands; you can start to feel it with patience and practice.) Then visualize yourself absorbing the healing energy up through your hands into your body.
Alternately, put the stones down once your hands are activated. Then sweep your hands over your body, with the intention to sweep away all stress into a place where it can do no harm.
3. Meditate with one small lodestone in each hand. Another technique is to meditate while one hand holds two small stones and swishes them around each other. (Sometimes doing a repetitive movement can help your mind let go and enter a more relaxed and focused state.)
4. Because of their magnetic quality, they are associated with attracting your intentions toward you. While you handle them, intend to attract calm and peace in place of stress or anxiety.
5. Lodestones can pull out and clear negativity from the chakras. Recline and relax, and line up the lodestone on a chakra point. When you feel a sense of clearing, remove it and move it up to the next chakra.
Ultimately, some days will bring more stress than others. Some days you’ll make mistakes, or face situations beyond your control. Nobody is perfect. However, making a concerted effort to release stress, worry, and anxiety as they come up will only benefit your life and health now, and down the line as well